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The bar patron asked the bartender, "Is life worth living?"

The bartender replied, "It depends on the liver."1

In other words, it's a judgment call.

Most of us crave simple patterns to explain life. We crave simple rules to guide our behavior. We often don't get them.

I encountered an example ...

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I'm an optimistic kind of guy. I can usually find the "half full" in any glass, no matter how empty it is.

But even I get discouraged sometimes. Most often, it's because of human irrationality.

The poet Henry Wadsworth Longfellow wrote that "Whom the gods ...

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There are three basic ways to deal with any situation:

  • Method 1: Complain about it and be unhappy.
  • Method 2: Accept it and be happy.
  • Method 3: Try to change it, and then apply Method 1 or 2 to the result.

Of course, there are lots of variations.

Method ...

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Is human history driven mainly by the actions of "great men"?

It's called the great man theory of history.

Of course, the problem is that word "mainly." Lots of things cause historical events. To say that a specific person was a "main" ...

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Your parents lied to you. So did mine.

They told us:

"You can do anything if you make up your mind to do it."

Nope. Not true.

Don't be too hard on parents. It's a well-meaning lie. It's arguably even a justified lie. Children shouldn't prematurely limit their aspirations in ...

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In 1949, the legendary American comedian Groucho Marx resigned from the Friars Club of Beverly Hills. His reason?

"I don't want to belong to any club that would accept me as one of its members."

A lot of people are starting to feel that way about the internet. The hate, hysteria, Twitter mobs, privacy ...

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We're all a mixture of good and bad impulses.

That's not new. Alexander Pope observed in 1734:

"Virtuous and vicious every man must be,
Few in the extreme, but all in the degree,
The rogue and fool by fits is fair and wise;
And ...

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"Quitters never win, and winners never quit. But those who never win and never quit are idiots."
   -- Despair.com

Don't be a quitter. But don't be an idiot, either.

The problem in many situations is to know which is which.

Contrary to Despair.com's funny ...

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If you want to understand why people believe and act as they do, three ideas will get you a long way:

People want the world to make sense.

They make sense of the world in various ways, based on different assumptions and biases. They feel as if their worldview is part of who they are. If you dispute their their cherished ...

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"The problem of evil" has long been a thorn in the side of Judaism and Christianity. It's a simple argument:

  • Judaism and Christianity say that God is infinitely good and infinitely powerful.
  • If God is infinitely good, then ...
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You can trust people. Honest. That's not a joke. Trust me.

But it's important to know what trust is. Then you can trust people in the right way.

A couple of analogies might help explain the point.

Suppose that you see a big rock on the grass in front of you. Based on past experience, you know at least two more things ...

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It's easy to remain calm when everything is going well. But it's more important to remain calm when everything isn't going so well.

One way I'm lucky is that I have friends and family members who sometimes disagree with me about important issues. That makes me take a second look at my beliefs. It helps me see outside my own world-view ...

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Human beings are social animals. To be our best selves, we need other people.

But those relationships demand work, patience, and understanding.

How can you make your relationships as happy as possible in 2019?

Think about three things: You, the other person, and the relationship itself.

You

The philosopher Bertrand ...

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Want to create a better life in 2019?

In "Emily's Five Things," a Taiwanese television series, Emily finds a bottle at the beach. It contains a paper with an enigmatic message:

  • Be Yourself
  • Reconcile
  • Bid Farewell
  • Go Home
  • Rewind

The ...

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